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rm_adamhannah 60 M
1  Article
big hansome men   7/22/2006

it is a sad fact that most people only look at the cover & never take the time to find out about the inside , just passing it off as not right 4 them . having been large most of my life i have allways put my size to one side & used my natural ability when it comes to dating not just looking & deciding at 1st glance that the shape is all that matters , i find that most large bhm/bbw are ...


0 Comments, 70 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
beyondsecrets2 56 F
1  Article
WHY IS DATING SO HARD THESE DAYS?   7/21/2006

IT WOULD SEEM NO ONE WANTS TO GO OUT ON A DATE ANYMORE. Seems everyone wants to stay on the comp. now a days and just chat and play. IS THAT REALLY SATISFYING TO YOU GUYS WHO DO THIS?


0 Comments, 96 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
rm_MSBHYVN 61 F
13  Articles
How many is 2 many?   7/20/2006

When you meet eye 2 eye and things click. How many is 2 many?


0 Comments, 234 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
Ixnay206 44 M
9  Articles
Sex to Dating   7/19/2006

A friend and I have entered a discussion and are looking for answers! How many people on AdultFriendFinder have met someone strictly for sex, but ended up dating or moving on to a bigger relationship?


0 Comments, 62 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
comfortable   7/19/2006

Whats more comfortable a nice resturant or is that letting a woman know you have money or some where you can both laugh and enjoy each other


1 Comments, 29 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
rm_Jesse__7 43 M
1  Article
long distance   7/18/2006

in my opinion it doesnt really work. however i find myself in a long distance relationship with a girl ive only known four months!
about a month ago we moved apart and decided to stay together and try to make it work. Im content as of now. but i find myself on this site more and more, looking at other chicks and wondering. wondering if this is kinda like cheating, and questioning ...


2 Comments, 33 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
zebra299 64 M
8  Articles
Love at first site!   7/15/2006

I was just in Las Vegas, NV recently and was waiting for a plane when a cute blonde walk up and sat next to me. She was a nurse and was so good looking in I think 30 inch waist in her jeans. Her breast was 38c I looked she wanted me to see. She gave me her cell number and she told me she was from my state. She gave me a wink with her blue eyes and rub my leg as she boaded another plane. ...


0 Comments, 134 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
Anal fucking   7/14/2006

Actualy i would have always say no thank for an anal fuck until the day i got it with the right person....... he had a nice lovely long n thick dick...... goodness when it was inside though it was dificult to get in but afterward Guys it was real good.... I couldnt help myself of crying loudly of enjoyment, pain it was mixed feeling ........... he knew how to play while he was inside and ...


2 Comments, 565 Views, 9 Votes ,5.56 Score
rm_mohar10 45 M
16  Articles
The "Love Connection" of the '90's   7/7/2006

Gather your rosebuds out there, in the real world while you may, because tomorrow they will be dying!
It's so easy to think about, and indeed wish for Love! We will all admit that it is a wonderful and necessary thing, yet who here agrees on just what it is. Not I, so I'm going to concentrate on the easy question.
I never did like the concept of “computer ...


0 Comments, 37 Views, 3 Votes ,4.90 Score
aimtoplease811 50 M
2  Articles
rejection   7/6/2006

do u ever feel rejected when there are so many women on here but no one is interested and dont give me any bullshit from you self named studds. is it better to be ignored or rejected ?


2 Comments, 135 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
tonguerides61 54 M
1  Article
Who knows!!!   7/6/2006

Who knows? Whens the appropriete time for all the firsts in a relationship.First kiss first squeeze of a breast , oral experiance with someone. I find myself single again at 45 and its really hard to decide whats acceptable. Does anyone have any comments?


0 Comments, 27 Views, 0 Votes
mightystick54 63 M
10  Articles
Starting of dating point.   7/5/2006

I know a 37 year old woman for more than 10 years.I believe simple aqaintance without sexual intentions has nothing to do with dating.Her husband deserted her five years back and she is living alone.Since she is well settled in life and has economic independence desertion by her husband has no relevance as much as her lively hood is concerned.But she lost company of a male.Her mother openly ...


0 Comments, 126 Views, 0 Votes
rm_bula272 37 M
1  Article
Shemales   7/5/2006

If there is any shemales in the lubbock area that want to have a good time please contact me at 806-773-4401
Ask for smith


0 Comments, 48 Views, 1 Votes
Hopeless hooked....   7/4/2006

It was a leisurely afternoon. I met a beautiful, sexy 19 yr.old blonde/blue eye (she is absolutely gorgeous!!!! -and those eyes…I can swim in them forever….)..... The weather outside was cool, and it was raining so we dashed inside her car... We looked at each other and smiled. We chatted for a while... Then something happened. She leaned towards me... I cupped her face and ...


1 Comments, 126 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
rm_HottNsty 61 F
1  Article
Membership with AdultFriendFinder   7/1/2006

I have just joined AdultFriendFinder. I have been to other single sites and never really wanted to take the next step to dating because the sites really don't tell U much about the person sexually. I am excited about my membership because with AdultFriendFinder they pull back the curtin and let U see what's inside instead of just what's on the outside. It is so important in connecting with another person. I am ...


0 Comments, 220 Views, 9 Votes ,3.85 Score
Younger women   6/30/2006

I have always been attracted to women younger than myself. However as I have gotten older, I find it harder to meet younger women. I would appreciate input from other older men on how they handle approaching younger women. And also input from the women on what attracts them to an older man and how they respond when approached....


2 Comments, 108 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
young for the old?   6/29/2006

Why are women more discreet about dating a younger guy than men are with younger women?


0 Comments, 43 Views, 1 Votes
why?   6/27/2006

Why is it that women like to act totally different than they really are on a first date?


1 Comments, 34 Views, 0 Votes
when does chivalry become sexism   6/22/2006

i keep hearing that chivalry is dead but it may have just been pummelled unconscious. i assume it's still cool to open doors and pull out chairs for a date. where does the line start? i've never ordered a woman's food for her cause i think that is too far but where is that line?


0 Comments, 25 Views, 0 Votes
rm_idn8tive 48 M
0  Articles
Where do I go from here?   6/22/2006

I am currently going through a divorce. I was suprised she asked for it, but agreed that we weren't making each other happy. I quote "I can't make you happy...when we put (our ) to bed you want me to have a conversation or have sex with you." Well, she wasn't wrong. I'd like a partner that even after 10 years wants to have those special moments when the (s) go to bed whether it's talking ...


0 Comments, 85 Views, 0 Votes
need a girl   6/18/2006

Am feeling so lonely here and i need a girl i can chart with please i want a good looking sexy gilr. i need a girl like puff daddy


0 Comments, 19 Views, 0 Votes
Signs that you are dating a married man!   6/16/2006

Are you getting the vibe that maybe you're not the only woman in your guy's life? That perhaps he's sneaking around? Check out these give-aways that your man may well be married. (Unfortunately, it does happen!) 1. You only meet a few friends "It's obvious that something's amiss if he insulates you from his life and you don't meet his friends or family. But even if he does introduce you ...


0 Comments, 165 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
james81211 43 M
2  Articles
Are older woman attracted to younger guys?   6/13/2006

I've had this question for a while but are older woman attracted to younger guys?


0 Comments, 51 Views, 0 Votes
AdultFriendFinder Ladies keep it clean   6/13/2006

I have met a few wonderful from women from AdultFriendFinder. One thing has made me very pleasantly suprised. Each of them was kind enough to keep a very clean and shaved pussy. I cannot begin to tell you the delight I have of slowly licking and cucking on a clit not hidden by even one hair. AdultFriendFinder ladies keep it up. You make it a sexier world to live in.


0 Comments, 48 Views, 2 Votes ,0.34 Score
do women like the ideal of a bisexual man?   6/10/2006

i'm a bi guy and find it hard to meet women.


2 Comments, 179 Views, 0 Votes
rm_chevyluv1983 31 M
1  Article
I'm a little shy and don't know how to ask a girl out properly   6/6/2006

Well I'm a little shy when it comes to talking to a new gal, I have had many girlfriends and everyone I have had ask me out or come up to me for the first time talking. I have been single again for about a year now and when I se a gal I like I just don't know what to say and if I talk to a gal on here I just kind of freeze up and don't know what to talk about! I have a bunch of girls I have ...


0 Comments, 34 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Coco200520062 33 M
5  Articles
Has this ever happened to you?   6/4/2006

I'll contact girls here and they'll write back but tell me to go to another site if I want more info on them. Now, that pisses me off. I pay money here for this service. I don't want to have to pay for another site. It gets me so b/c it's like leading you on. I'll contact ou, but... Is this common here?


0 Comments, 47 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
rm_renae_amelia 37 F
1  Article
Cheating   6/1/2006

Would you cheat on your girlfriend that lives kind of far and that you love alot just for a nut?


1 Comments, 88 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
ERdosDdos 51 M
4  Articles
It's a small world   5/29/2006

I was not really interested in Internet-Sites like this before, and I'm only here because I got an invitation of a friend. To join here was the best idea I had for months. Not only because it's easy to make contacts here. Yesterday it happened for the 3rd time, a woman I know for a long time told me she saw my pictures at AdultFriendFinder. She called me and said we seriously have to ...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
rm_hls505 68 F
0  Articles
Please tell me, Men?   5/28/2006

Why is it ‒ when a woman takes the lead in the dating, you go in a “still stand” and tells her that she is to fast for you? That the Dating rules must be in your hands? That if maybe she is married, but are willing to take the risk on her, you suddenly don’t have the cartridge to meet her? I’m separate from bed and table ‒ to get a divorce will ...


2 Comments, 130 Views, 6 Votes ,3.93 Score
Cards   5/25/2006

Years ago a friend of mine being new to the dating game had to buy a card. Unfortunately he was not the witty person he is today, so he took another card and copied the quote into it. (two cards in one)
The bad thing is after he left the store, her realized he bought the wrong card, the blank one.


0 Comments, 15 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
restaurant   5/23/2006

where to go to eat? (1) pick someplace with a nice atmosphere (not some place where you will be rushed) (2) tell the waiter you are not in a rush but its a special night and tip him a little in advance if you have to (eating there in advance and building a rapport with the waiter is better) (3) remember in your mind to work towards desert (4) pick foods that are not going to blow ...


0 Comments, 19 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
Sex on the first date??   5/23/2006

How many males and females think that sex on the first date is ok??


2 Comments, 261 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
Have you ever dated avirgin   5/17/2006

How many of you have met an actual virgin on a site like this im tired of women on here with that lame excuse. Sayin they dont want to meet guys cause they are saving themselves. For what when most of them have already engaged in some type of sex.


1 Comments, 54 Views, 1 Votes
rm_Hard2Guard 44 M
10  Articles
Dating   5/16/2006

Dating is overrated, just get on with it already.


0 Comments, 8 Views, 0 Votes
Why I'm always hungry to dating?   5/8/2006

Dears,
Men like me..a lot of men always think about sex "all types" why????
It is an internal feeling, and you can't stop it untill you relief the love liquid.
and after 30 min, you want again and again.
where can I find a girl that give me these all the time day and night?
Thanks smartpower3


0 Comments, 29 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
crazyfeline 45 F
5  Articles
Is Chivalry Dead?   5/7/2006

Hey guys! Wake up! If there is a female that you're really interested in and you don't want her to continue looking for the right man, sweep her off her feet! I know some things sound corny, but hey, speaking as a woman, we love that shit! A knight in shining armor riding in on a , sound crazy- try it. Or take her for a surprise carriage ride. You know you don't have to spend money to get ...


10 Comments, 534 Views, 19 Votes ,6.55 Score
why no luck for me?   5/7/2006

Why are girls not interested in me. I have my profile posted in this site for over two years, but not a single girl has written to me .Can anybody help me in finding out the reason.


0 Comments, 43 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
Spanish holiday   5/2/2006

It was only a few weeks ago now that I blurted out through tears that I had been unfaithful to my partner whilst I was overseas. We had discussed marriage in one of those long after sex cuddles when you feel warm and full of love endorphins. He had volunteered the information that he had a ‘fling' with a girl he met at a party and spent the weekend screwing her. I ...


0 Comments, 70 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
rm_roller397 68 M
1  Article
Fucking on the first date   4/30/2006

Wouldn't it make more since to fuck first. I'm just saying I really don't know if I want to spend alot of time with a woman until after I fuck her. I would think a woman would feel the same way on this.


0 Comments, 74 Views, 0 Votes
thickandtasty619 39 F
7  Articles
HOW LONG???????   4/29/2006

HOW LONG AFTER YOU DIVORCE IS IT OK TO START DATING???????


6 Comments, 392 Views, 10 Votes ,2.39 Score
Ladies when you finally reach to point of having sex   4/25/2006

Do you prefer a guy that is slient in bed or makes noise.


1 Comments, 299 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
THE BEST   4/24/2006

ONES Y HAD A DATE WITH A BEUTIFUL GIRL AND THUOT THAT MAYBE Y COULD TRY SOMETHING ON MY FIRST DATE BUT UN FORTUNATLY SHE WASENT WHAT Y EXPECTED SHE WHAS A LESBIEN AND ONLY WHANTED TO GO OUT WIHT ME TO COVER UP, THAT WAY HER FAMILY COULD THINK THA SHE LIKES GUYS ECT, I DIDENT MIEN BECAUSE THE GIRL WERE FIRENLY WIH ME MOST OF THE TIME AND EVE SHARE THE BED AT TIMES UNFOTUNATLY NOT AS OFTEN AS ...


0 Comments, 25 Views, 0 Votes
rm_Maye_faire 34 M
1  Article
Approaching girls aka "Cold approaching"   4/20/2006

"Hey, I need a female Opinion, whom do you think lies more, men or women?"
I have no idea, she answered.
damn, I approached for my second time, and like the first, I was simply blown out of the set.
It's finally happened, after 5 years of never having had the courage to go out and try out the materials, I've finally pushed myself to face my fear of walking up ...


1 Comments, 199 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
health test   4/19/2006

Is it right to ask your partner for a health test before having unprotected sex or should u trust them


0 Comments, 20 Views, 0 Votes
What to look for in the first date.   4/13/2006

Dating can be pretty tricky sometimes. First of all you have to go through the whole get to know you routine, which can be pretty boring at times. Then you have to shell out the money to pay for that first date not knowing if things are even going to work out, can be stressful if you are in a money crunch. All in the name of love and happiness is why we do this time after time. I want ...


1 Comments, 118 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
How far would you go on a first date!!   4/11/2006

How far would you go on a first date if you really like the person?
A). Hug B Kiss C). Hug/Kiss D). French Kiss E). French Kiss and serious foreplay F). Oral Sex G). Sex H). Anal Sex I. None of the above would not do anything


0 Comments, 73 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
sexycumhungrycpl 37 F
1  Article
Sex an the single male in Asia   4/6/2006

From the husbands point of view.....
Oh to be single again. A life of endless sex with women. Dating, clubbing, partying the thrill of the hunt, the chase and finally the "kill"
Happy days
Well maybe not! Being alone. Not getting that quality sex/love making. Endlessly trying to teach some girls who despite saying they are hot turn out to be disappointing. ...


0 Comments, 299 Views, 2 Votes ,4.50 Score
silkythighs350 31 F
10  Articles
How soon   4/5/2006

how soon is to soo to have sex when dating?


2 Comments, 194 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
rm_hardnfunTpe 46 M
1  Article
life is more fun if it's always just a date.   4/3/2006

A lot of people don't understand that when it's just a date, it's more than being involved in a relationship. There's always fresh ideas and ways to make things interesting. The motivation is there because it hasn't been done, at least with that person. Let's keep it that way!


0 Comments, 91 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
rm_Hardbodydark 41 M
4  Articles
Transexual dating   4/2/2006

Ok, when a transgendered woman is on hormones, do her nipples get more sensitive?


0 Comments, 167 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
rm_timelooker 71 M
1  Article
where are all the bad girls   4/2/2006

you know they come on this site showing off there stuff but if you were to meet a lady they would not be as bad as they show them self of in here they abck away. i new this would lite a firer


0 Comments, 69 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
Softcore Singles   3/31/2006

The Party starts here. No Pressure, No drama, No fake profiles, SoftcoreSingles.com welcomes Singles, Couples and Groups to explore their wildest fantasy. We are not an affiliate of some larger site with email addresses that never work or members who never reply back to you.
Our members are active and are on our site because they want to be there. Enjoy Casual sex, Real ...


0 Comments, 75 Views, 0 Votes
Why is it so hard   3/28/2006

Sometimes dating can be rather difficult don't you agree? But yet some people find it so easy, i'm kinda stuck in the middle of it all!


0 Comments, 125 Views, 0 Votes
stayhumble 46 M
4  Articles
are you   3/28/2006

do you believe in sfae sex even though you know your partner?


1 Comments, 182 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
imjustasquirrel 46 M
1  Article
fishin anyone?   3/27/2006

its not the size of ur rowboat, its the motion of the ocean ladies....


0 Comments, 185 Views, 0 Votes
blacknsexyja 30 F
3  Articles
is it possible to find a guy?   3/24/2006

am on here telling myself am looking for a serious relationship, i know its a sex market but some times its good to have guys with a bit of experience (and i still want that virgin) thats why i choose here so do you think it possible to find that guy on here?


2 Comments, 408 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
the first night   3/23/2006

WELL FOR ME ALL OF THE DATES ARE AN ADVENTURE ITS FEELS LIKES SOMETHING ESPECIALY EMOTION AND YOU ALLWAY HAVE THE FEEELING OF WHOW THING CAN WORK OUT Y LOVE DATING DIFERENT TIPES OF WOMAN CULTURES ECT, YOU CAN ALLWAYS LEARN FORM THEM Y REALY HOPE TO MEEET THEM IN THIS PAGES BUT AT THE MOMENT HAVENT HAD MUCH LUCK.
HOPE TO MEET YOU SOON.


0 Comments, 860 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
Worst time...   3/12/2006

Ladies, how about telling us the worst meeting you've ever had with someone you met on AdultFriendFinder? Could be rather enlightening and educational for some of us guys....


0 Comments, 42 Views, 0 Votes
When to call it quits?   3/11/2006

si it just me or its really hard to know whn to call it quuits..especially when u feel u ned out but u also want to stay...does anybody else feel the same way?


0 Comments, 28 Views, 0 Votes
Any one from bangalore   3/11/2006

Any female from bangalre b/w age gr of 18-24 lokking for fun contact me.


0 Comments, 21 Views, 0 Votes
WHAT AGE IS THE BEST   3/8/2006

WHAT AGE GROUP IS THE MOST SERIOUS ABOUT DATING?


1 Comments, 38 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Meeting people outside of bars...or the internet   3/7/2006

Hey. I'm not much of a drinker, and I hate the bar scene. I'm also opposed to taking advantage of girls who've been drinking or are drunk, so that sort of eliminates the bar scene from my prospective places to meet women. Ditto for frat parties, etc.
So where's the best non-alcoholic place to meet people? People don't go out in public looking to actually meet people in places other ...


1 Comments, 53 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
WHAT TO DO   3/6/2006

My girl and I love eachother we already had sex and she keep wanting more. I starting to get tiered what should I do and not break up with her


1 Comments, 71 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
My Husband And I   3/5/2006

Well my husband and I have a unique but different kind of story about how we met. I am sure some people think that they have had better but I like my story and I would like to share it with you. <br> One day I was at the lake with my best friend and she told me about her ex-husband and I really didn't want to here it because that is all she could talk about, but I listend and it ...


0 Comments, 233 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
First Date   3/3/2006

I know people are different but what is a good first date? <br> i think pictures is a bad idea because, its not really a place where you can talk and get to know each-other? <br> So what do you think guy's and girls? <br> Thnaks for any response. <br> <br> xx


1 Comments, 190 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
IS TWO TO MANY   3/2/2006

IS TWO WOMAN TO MANY TO BE HAVING SEX WITH?


1 Comments, 158 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
sex on first date   2/28/2006

how many women like to have sex on the first date


0 Comments, 185 Views, 0 Votes
any females from wichita kansas wanna meet a handsome guy who is well hung leave a comment   2/27/2006

still waiting to meet someone on this website. no luck yet. im a handsome guy i can prove it. willing to meet. looking for a fuck buddy. couples (man and a woman). hit me up. later.


0 Comments, 91 Views, 2 Votes
cheating   2/27/2006

How many of you daters or couples enjoy romantic dinners over sex?


1 Comments, 180 Views, 0 Votes
iluvblackdick3 44 F
1  Article
Dating is for idiots!   2/25/2006

I hate dating. Why can't people just fuck without saying that they are dating? Everybody knows that once you say you're dating someone....that your fucking too! So just say that you have a partner. Dating seems to make people assume that you only have one partner. If you just tell people....yes...I have a partner..then you might get more ass cause they won't assume that your tied down ...


6 Comments, 334 Views, 11 Votes ,3.92 Score
hornynycpl2345 48 C
5  Articles
dating   2/22/2006

If you start dating a new person should you let them know right away you are into swinging?


1 Comments, 147 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
rm_Ollie909 43 M
1  Article
Seeing an older woman help.   2/19/2006

I'm seeing a older woman, 8 years older. At first all we did is have sex and I'd go home but lately she has been calling me to go out out with her. I have nothing in common with her other than sex. How do I get things the way they once where? That and here's one of her emails she sent me to give you more in site. <br> "ok. so hears the deal, i am kinda upset, i realize u just ...


1 Comments, 118 Views, 0 Votes
rm_jxjx88212 44 M
4  Articles
duh   2/17/2006

does dating on this site make u desperate?


0 Comments, 112 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
rm_c_p_a_n1 41 M
1  Article
one night   2/15/2006

I would really like to know what women think of one night stands. Society has labelled the men to always be eager for them but i've found a few that were interested. Does it appeal to you ladies? This site is a perfect example: Ratio 100:1 men to women (guessing). Personally i'd rather a one week stand, due to the first night being too drunk to remember plus you never know where it'll lead. ...


1 Comments, 211 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
Interracial Dating   2/13/2006

I love women, and i find myself wanting to be with an asian, african-american, or a latin woman.....I think that it would be very erotic to be with them mainly because it is unchartered territory for me...do other men feel this way for this reason or are these women better in bed?


1 Comments, 107 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
4800direct 62 M
32  Articles
Neues Jahr Neues Erfahrung, New Year New Ideas   2/12/2006

Neues Jahr Neues Erfahrung, New Year New Ideas <br> <br> So ist das Neue hier und ich will, bekommen heraus und werden nackt mit gemerkten Leuten anderer Messe, aber im Moment hier in Deutschland sein ein bisschen zur Kälte, um sich von der Außenseite aber vielleicht im März auszuziehen, als ich den Urlaub von drei Wochen bekam, könnte das für ein Nacktes Hanky ...


0 Comments, 99 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
rkwallabee 38 M
4  Articles
Why Date?   2/11/2006

I don't think that people should date. Its a waste of time if you ask me. I mean I guess you get to know each other better but can't you do that by just hanging out casually without all this added pressure of a date and the relationship behind it. If you like somebody why not be around them all the time and see if thats truely what you like, also you will get time to see them for who they ...


0 Comments, 46 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
Spit or swallow   2/10/2006

Women do you spit or swallow the first time if you want to impress your man?


2 Comments, 143 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
rm_Sunny2Dazed 34 F
2  Articles
i'm so happy...   2/8/2006

Since i've moved to Florida, it hasn't exactly been the best experience.. Never have i told anyone this.. or even been able to write it down.. But i moved to Tampa at the begining of September.. 2 weeks before i moved here i got into a car wreck, where i was ran off the road by a drunk driver... It totaled my car... So 1st i move to Tampa with no car.. When i moved here i knew one person ...


5 Comments, 645 Views, 15 Votes ,3.28 Score
saying no   2/7/2006

In everyday life, it's easy for someone to say "No", or "No Thank You" in just about any given situation. Why, then, is it so difficult for someone to respect those words when you're behind closed doors. In personal experience(s), I've run into a few pushy people. I think it's a common thing really. However, those people have completely respected my wishes. Out at a club, it takes a ...


0 Comments, 119 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score
NorthWiltsMan 55 M
3  Articles
I wasted my youth   2/3/2006

It seems ther are 2 kinds of ladies out there - those who have been cheated on and don't want to have a married man, and those who are looking for the lover, whilst retaining their best friend. However the later type all want that 18-21 year old with an 8" cock. <br> When I was 18-21 I was too afarid to approach ladies in their 50-60s but I see on here all the ladies of that age ...


3 Comments, 137 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
rm_ballguy3 45 M
15  Articles
Various positions   1/31/2006

People who decide that they are going to experiment with sex and all its glories must have a reason. What is it? What makes them go against the norms? Are they simply rebelling or is it like getting a tattoo (an artistic expression behind the deed)?


0 Comments, 85 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
rm_ballguy3 45 M
15  Articles
Can you get along with your ex?   1/31/2006

Does it depend on how the breakup happened? Definitely! To keep it short, I believe that if there is a reason, and a real one at that, then both parties can separate from the romantic and begin the platonic. <br> If somebody is left with questions as to what happened, this can be destructive to not only that person, but any good intentions that may have resulted if the breakup ...


0 Comments, 58 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
honeycurious05 33 F
2  Articles
Dating 101   1/31/2006

10 things you should know about the person you are dating or interested in are: 1. Their likes and dislikes 2. What broke up their last relationship? 3. Their goals in life 4. What accomplishments they have made? 5. Are they cheap? 6. Have they been tested for any STD in the last 6months? 7. How many they have or how many are expected? 8. Their sexual ...


3 Comments, 482 Views, 26 Votes ,4.21 Score
mytushieisurtush 40 F
2  Articles
Playing   1/24/2006

I have expressed interest in a couple of people here and asked them to meet me at a club or for a cup of coffee to see if things click and as soon as there is the offer of meeting put forth they find a reason to not follow through or don't show up at all. I have read articles where men are stating that the women aren't giving them a chance, but it seems to be the same with some of the men ...


2 Comments, 423 Views, 12 Votes ,5.45 Score
Worse night of sex   1/24/2006

Just sitting here at 3am and can't sleep and was wondering what are people worse experience with someone when they were having sex and what made it bad?


1 Comments, 205 Views, 3 Votes ,0.49 Score
The #1 Orgasm   1/20/2006

I had been out with Jennifer on several occassions. We had met through mutual friends at a party, progressed through the play-wrestling/fighting stage, and had gone out only twice previously. On one especially dark and horny night, we'd done a brief dinner and a movie thing and I'd spent the majority of the movie clit-rubbing and finger-fucking Jenn. She did a little crotch rubbing, but ...


0 Comments, 450 Views, 5 Votes ,5.43 Score
rm_rugzx924 43 M
9  Articles
Less than 10   1/17/2006

The best way things to do on a first date are things that will cost u less than ten bucks. For instance a coffee shop. U don't have to blow money on the first date. Wether she likes u or not is up to her.


0 Comments, 561 Views, 7 Votes ,3.30 Score
rm_wenebojo2 60 M
2  Articles
how to get a date   1/17/2006

i cant seem to work up the nerves to ask someone out.when i do the women have other things to do or seening someone else.mainly when they say they do have a boyfriend before i ask them out.i dont try to be pushy but could it be my shyness?i have alwys been softspoken till i get to hnow someone.help


0 Comments, 267 Views, 1 Votes
How is going first date?   1/17/2006

How is going first date?


0 Comments, 171 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
InkednPierced8 46 M
9  Articles
Philofecies   1/15/2006

I lick girls' rumps. I like to lick girls' rumps. Girls like to have their rumps licked. Most girls won't admit they've had their rump licked, let alone enjoyed having their rump licked. But believe you me, if you lick a girl's rump, she'll love you for life. In fact, that was my high school yearbook quote. <br> My conviction to 'slurping the brown pucker' doesn't stem from ...


0 Comments, 86 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
YOUNG MARRIED AND SELLING IT   1/14/2006

We married young I was a day 16 and my husband 15 I wasn't pregnant we didn't have to get married we wanted to we were in love, and no one could keep us apart. The sex was great we would fuck untill we were sore, besides we didn't have anything better to do. By the time I was 18 we had two we were still together and still haveing great sex. Our bodys had changed we grew up we ...


1 Comments, 1211 Views, 8 Votes ,3.48 Score
FPSJ20 40 M
10  Articles
Is dating someone to just have sex at the end bad?   1/9/2006

I am asking this question because I have friends who only will date women to have the sex at the end. If they don't get what they want, they just end up saying how horrible the woman was and how it was the worst date they had ever been on. I would not date a woman to just have sex at the end unless if that is what they wanted, and wanted to have more later. What do you all think?


0 Comments, 100 Views, 0 Votes
JsAngelBaby 40 F
4  Articles
New Stuff & Need Answers   1/8/2006

Well, I just added a new photo album for all you lucky (*LOL*) guys. <br> But really the reason I’m writing is because I was going through Cosmo and got to thinking . . . <br> In the whole “Ask Him Anything” part a girl wrote in and asked something like, “You have your period, should him the truth or make up an excuse?” And yeah I read ...


2 Comments, 151 Views, 0 Votes
sexytinkerbell19 38 F
4  Articles
From Cosmo   1/8/2006

From Cosmopolitan: Notice her: There's a reason why your woman spent an hour getting ready for dinner: She wanted to look sexy for you. So remark on her efforts, but be specific. A little help: "I love your hair pulled back" or "Your legs look amazing in that skirt." These comments show you pay attention to her, which makes her feel loved. Ogle her: Sure, we may hate it when some ...


0 Comments, 490 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
Single..or are they??   1/6/2006

Single..or are they?? Here we go again....do you ever wonder what in the hell some people are thinking sometimes and what makes them do the things they do...... <br> Well, here are some key things for people that get a little lost on the basis of relationships....I am watching someone I know go through something that is going to do nothing but hurt her, so here are my thoughts ...


0 Comments, 184 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Words vs. Actions   1/6/2006

The Secret: Instead of listening to words that profess love and make promises, watch your new dating or relationship partner for consistent, positive action towards you over time. <br> Have you ever gotten into a relationship with a person who told you everything you have dreamt of hearing from a partner, only to have the relationship fall apart for no reason a short time later? ...


0 Comments, 48 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
BOOTY CALL   1/6/2006

This has got to be the greatest bulletin ive ever seen...BOOTY CALL! Please fill out the below application if you want to be a booty call for this person. RE-POST IF U WANNA SEE WHO WANTZ TO BE YUR BOOTY-CALL! <br> <br> Name: ___________________ <br> Age: ____________________ <br> <br> Occupation: ____________________ <br> Height______ ...


0 Comments, 72 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
What ever happened to making out?   1/3/2006

Doesn't anybody like to just make out anymore? I'm talking about French kissing, heavy petting, giving hickeys, anything that gets you all hot and bothered but stops short of sex. <br> Why did we leave this "backseat behavior" in high school? There's no law that says "Once you're 18 years old, all fooling around must lead to sex." <br> I'm a man, so I'd like to get ...


0 Comments, 150 Views, 3 Votes ,4.90 Score
wontknowtillutry 60 F
7  Articles
Oh Boy Toys or should I say Oh! Boy toys! or Oh Boy! Toys!   12/30/2005

Hi there. <br> I just signed up for AdultFriendFinder a short time ago. I am in my early forties, and a good sized girl, rubesque, bbw, or any way you want to call it. <br> What has totally suprised me is the number of responses I have recieved from hot young guys. I think originally I had more middle aged in mind, but this insurgance of interest is making me rethink that. ...


4 Comments, 740 Views, 22 Votes ,4.57 Score
What's really going on?   12/30/2005

I was wondering why it seems like so many people are too picky on this site? I have chatted with quite a few women on this site who like my profile and picture, but very few are in my hometown of San Diego, which of course makes meeting anybody extremely dificult.I have never had a problem meeting women in person, and I have gotten many compliments about how I look. With that in mind, I am ...


0 Comments, 161 Views, 0 Votes
proof AdultFriendFinder works   12/22/2005

we met each other through AdultFriendFinder almost 2 years ago and are still together and going strong , so AdultFriendFinder can and does work if you are looking for more than just a sex meet ( think we should get free membership for the positive advertising btw AdultFriendFinder , lol )


2 Comments, 251 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
love   12/19/2005

Indiana, you are alovely lady send me a message of love very soon.


0 Comments, 62 Views, 1 Votes
rm_unique2bfree 69 M
2  Articles
Thanks Lynn!   12/18/2005

I went on my third date since I've been on AdultFriendFinder. My last date was the best ever, and with a lady in her late 30's. We met in Newport Beach at Charlie's. She was easy to reconize from her photo and her smile was beyond belief. We were both a little nervous at first but, we managed to get over that pretty quick. After a little walk on the pier and exchanging some personal information, we ...


0 Comments, 96 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
sierrars5000 40 C
6  Articles
Genuine Ladies?????   12/9/2005

Where are all the genuine single ladies looking for a couple? <br> There seem to be loads listed when you do a search but when you view their profiles they all seem to be either married or dating and wanting their partners to join in! <br> And also why is it that when you state in big letters on your profile that your not interested in single guys do they try and contact ...


0 Comments, 120 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
rm_colombus30 43 C
2  Articles
I'm interested in Dating a very Beautifull and sexy Gal from any part of the world   12/8/2005

I'm a man from Ghana who seeks to date a very Beautifull woman from any part of the world Suppossing she is beautifull sexy and caring THANK YOU


0 Comments, 161 Views, 0 Votes
rm_colombus30 43 C
2  Articles
I'm interested in Dating a very Beautifull and sexy Gal from any part of the world   12/8/2005

I'm a man from Ghana who seeks to date a very Beautifull woman from any part of the world Suppossing she is beautifull sexy and caring THANK YOU


0 Comments, 87 Views, 0 Votes
how you know if he want just fuck or like u   12/7/2005

youknow men will tell you anything to fuck you so help me out


4 Comments, 418 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
to screw or not to screw   12/3/2005

I have encountered numerous women who just want to have sex and then leave. It seems the "ladies" on this site are different. Yes I'm married. The ones that I've encountered, don't care. The one on this site want romance, attention, then more of both. What ever happened to just plain screwing? There are the desires in women that men have. It's get compounded with thinking about the ...


0 Comments, 74 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
Can't younger ladies handle "NO" ?   12/1/2005

I've had several recent experiences that make me question the female psyche. Recently a young lady (half my age) and I encountered each other in a professional situation. Our group had the usual after work 1 drink and during the course of conversation she and another female couldn't believe my preferences of older women -my age and up. Long story short she ended up coming on to me and I ...


1 Comments, 232 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
rm_Mz_thick2 47 F
33  Articles
When is the right time   11/27/2005

When is the right time to tell someone that you are bi-sexual or u just wanna be gay?


1 Comments, 73 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
How quickly?   11/26/2005

What is your opinion on how quickly things should move on a first date. Everyone has different opinions, so let's share! Just a kiss? Would you give/recive oral on a first date? Sex?


5 Comments, 321 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
hottytootrotty 49 M
1  Article
whats it worth   11/25/2005

whats it worth to be a player. my experiences say ...... nothing. notta zip zilch zero. to date different people be honest and up front that they are not the only ones. i found this to work best even if you dont get what you want from everybody. you always walk away the better person


0 Comments, 18 Views, 0 Votes
What to know before dating   11/25/2005

I took a chance, and bought a one- (1) month gold membership. I wanted to read as many of the ladies personals as I could in thirty- (30) days, and to check out (at least a little bit of) the local male competition I have with men within my own age range, and hopefully, to meet my soul FWB. <br> After reading all those personals (M and F), and writing to a few select women, my ...


0 Comments, 105 Views, 0 Votes
rm_Mz_thick2 47 F
33  Articles
Is the first date when we show r stuff   11/24/2005

When we go out on that first date with someone y is it that some [eople feel like they have to have sex on the first date?


2 Comments, 177 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
so lame   11/23/2005

here in uneau its asmall town so finding a gril who is cool and not really sickly and still dirty dirty is hard. I have had so many lame dates it's really sad. The ones that I do like never have the same time frame to fuck as I do.


0 Comments, 83 Views, 0 Votes
rm_w_trkyw 51 M
1  Article
I wana a nice cute lady or girl from cairo to be my friend   11/22/2005

Ohhh I will not tell u how the egyptian ladys or girls are very hot, worm sexy attractive and very very intersting in sex Most of egyptains' femals are very hto and have a very sexy body I will not tell u how they are very wet I will not tell how much they are wonderfull in sex I love all egyptians' Ladies and girls I'd like really to meet one of them to be my real friend My name is ...


0 Comments, 70 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
rm_hahahell4u 44 F
1  Article
WHAT DID I DO WRONG?   11/22/2005

Ok so I meet a guy on this site and in my profile it states that I am also looking for females and that I am not looking for anything SERIOUS!! So we meet all is well and we do our thing. I let my profile downgrade to a standard member and take off my pic just to see how few emails and responses I would get. So the guy calls me and he seems to be upset that Now my profile is once again ...


0 Comments, 255 Views, 0 Votes
JGirlx69 55 F
5  Articles
shopping or dancing   11/19/2005

if i were to ask a girl out...to get to know her and see if there may be benifits...is it better to ask her to go shopping, dinner or out on the town?


3 Comments, 230 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
Looks, and build?   11/18/2005

Hey everyone, i would like to what women think of skinny'ish guy's? I am not a skeleton but i am fairly skinny, so id like to know what all you ladies prefer, mussles, beer gut or is skinny ok?


1 Comments, 89 Views, 0 Votes
looks are over rated   11/17/2005

What is this fixation on looks. When I was at the University of Kansas, I asked this one girl out. Now I based my decision totally on looks, she was definately Playboy material. So we went out and did the usuall college thing McDonalds and a movie. All the time she acted like she wasn't interested. So I figured that this was going to be a onetime thing. Anyway I took her back to her ...


0 Comments, 219 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
divebuddy4cpls 48 M
0  Articles
NEW RELATION WITH ANOTHER FEMALE   11/12/2005

I am married person, with on , .but my wife has no time for me, .and she never prepares herself when time gets to sex..like dreasing, makeuo, ..etc, ..I am getting tired from her behavoiur, ..and talked to her many time, .that sex, love needs some preperations before starting..but she does not listen, ..no matter I am in the mood, tired or relxed..all what she want is do sex.. I stopped ...


0 Comments, 114 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
razzle__dazzle 42 M
1  Article
Aussie in New York   11/7/2005

G'day! <br> Well i should start off by saying who i am.. I'm 23 years old, working towards self employment, however i'm a graphic deisgner turning business marketer right now and gaining expereince before i take a risk into starting a business. <br> Personally i've had my heart shattered a year ago by a girl. Haven't really shook that off just yet, but am close. I'm ...


0 Comments, 153 Views, 2 Votes
__Seeker__ 51 F
5  Articles
Discretion by definition...   11/7/2005

dis搾re暗ion (d-skreshun) n. <br> The quality of being discreet; circumspection. <br> Ability or power to decide responsibly. <br> Freedom to act or judge on one's own: All the decisions were left to our discretion. <br> -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- dis搾reet Marked ...


1 Comments, 217 Views, 6 Votes ,3.93 Score
rm_Agree2AGREE 50 M
1  Article
Why Must We Dance?   11/6/2005

Okay, I'm not a big dater. I never really understand the concept. Two people mutually attracted to one another sitting somewhere wondering, well I should say, the man wondering if he's going to score, and even if it's not just about sex. See women got an idea that, if a man is interested in sex, it's just sex. Which is totally untrue, a man will want to marry from the first time he sees ...


0 Comments, 117 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
who pays?   11/5/2005

when the bill comes for the night....who should pay?


4 Comments, 203 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
How to behave?   10/30/2005

I would like to know more how to behave when you meet new friends!


0 Comments, 176 Views, 0 Votes
Computer   10/27/2005

Do women like guys who are good at making/working/doing anything with computers? or like guys who are mechanics?


1 Comments, 96 Views, 0 Votes
wyntersknight 39 M
6  Articles
interested???   10/27/2005

IF a woman tells you she is interested and is all over you in person. But never calls, never emails, and never text messages when you are apart is she really interested. Even when you are together she won't stop kissing you or encouraging more???


0 Comments, 119 Views, 0 Votes
barabond 42 M
38  Articles
Choose those you have a good chance of dating   10/17/2005

don't aim low but do aim realistically. In other words, your dating is based on the whole package you present as well as just your personality. If you are looking for a glamour girl or boy and want to date someone trendy and gorgeous then good for you, but be prepared and be realistic about your chances.


0 Comments, 85 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
barabond 42 M
38  Articles
Confidence   10/16/2005

Sort out your confidence levels in advance. By following the first four tips you will feel better and be more focused. Do all the things that will boost your confidence from avoiding negative friends (often the married ones) to attending the right kind of social functions. Couples at dinner parties in suburbia is not necessarily where you need to be right now.


0 Comments, 87 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
barabond 42 M
38  Articles
treat yourself   10/15/2005

Go shopping and treat yourself to new clothes and even a whole new look. Get your image right, one that you can manage and live with, but one that flatters you. Don't go overboard and look like someone you are not but maybe its time to throw out those tired jeans, old sweaters or cardigans and spruce yourself up. People appreciate appearance.


0 Comments, 19 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
barabond 42 M
38  Articles
d2   10/15/2005

Get your act together. Begin a regime of looking your best. Join a gym, read health magazines, get fit and start a diet. Get your hair cut or styled and begin a new regime of good grooming or beauty treatment. Though it will not find you a date in itself, you will feel a million times more confident about yourself.


0 Comments, 23 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
rm_Eros5412 48 M
1  Article
does nationality make it easier to score?   10/13/2005

I have been thinking about this issue for a while since enjoying the nightlife in Amsterdam. It struck me that dutch women were most at ease with men from the US than any other country. Some women could actually not wait to lure them to bed. Not saying that all dutch women are easy to get(common thought) but there must be some logical reasons for this phenomenon. Maybe the West is still ...


0 Comments, 109 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
barabond 42 M
38  Articles
d1   10/12/2005

Get prepared for dating. If you really want to succeed in the dating game, decide who you are looking for, do your research and be ready to commit to dating. Half heartedness won't work. Also prepare for some let downs along the way but don't take dating too seriously either.


0 Comments, 55 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
Anyone real left in this world?   10/5/2005

Ive been single now for about a year just relaxin and enjoying life and traveling. I miss being with someone but it seems i just end up getting my heart broken or hurt. <br> Are there any decent girls left in this world that are looking for a guy to sweep you off your feet, treat you with respect like you should be given, loved and cared for and a whole lot more? <br> Or ...


0 Comments, 115 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
rm_kamikazee85 41 M
1  Article
ageism   9/29/2005

OK SO WHY IS IT THAT A 40/50 SOMETHING YEAR OLR MAN CAN DATE OR EVEN MARRY A 20 SOMETHING YEAR OLD WOMAN AND NO ONE HAS A PROBLEM? BUT IF THE SITUATION IS REVERSED THE ENTIRE WORLD HAS A PROBLEM AND MUST VOICE THEIR OPINION. <br> OK, NOW MOST WOMEN WILL SAY THEY ARE LOOKING FOR CERTAIN QUALITIES IN A MAN AND WHEN I GUY HAS THOSE QUALITIES SHE IS ALL FOR HIM UNTILL SHE FINDS OUT ...


2 Comments, 179 Views, 7 Votes ,5.08 Score
You Gotta Read This One!   9/27/2005

When I first heard about it, I thought that thouhght that it was just a joke. But it wasn't a joke. On October 24, 2005, over 3 milion men nation-wide have agreed to... <br> break up with their girlfriends/wives on the first ever "NATIONAL DUMP YOUR WOMAN DAY." aka "DUMP-DAY." This is an idea that was created by an international group called "10 SOCIETY, " that is dedicated to ...


0 Comments, 239 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
karmelkittykat 49 C
4  Articles
Where's your pics?   9/19/2005

We are tired of people on here who don't have pics. Why join a network and you have no pics. We want to see the real you. I don't know if your just scared or ugly? Regardless of this site you can't really chat or hook up with anyone and they can't see what your working with. People get it together and stop acting shy, we want to see more ass, pussy, and tits.


3 Comments, 198 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
LittleVJ 55 F
21  Articles
Expectations   9/17/2005

I mentioned to some of the people on here that I would be at club on a specific night, if they wanted to at least meet and say hi they should stop by. I mentioned that other people from AdultFriendFinder might be stopping by as well. <br> No definitive plans were made with any one individual. So it wasn't what you would call a date. <br> The idea was let a bunch of people know where ...


0 Comments, 590 Views, 11 Votes ,3.73 Score
limitedtime55 57 M
1  Article
confusion   9/13/2005

Now we all know that this site, is for people seeking sex...... ok some are looking for a relationship. But it does get frustrating when you get a contact and they are looking for a relationship and all you want is sex. read there ad i here you say, but it would be much easier if people seeking more then just sex go to a regular dating site.


6 Comments, 164 Views, 2 Votes ,0.34 Score
rm_ketil_up 54 M
1  Article
Hope etc...   9/10/2005

There is a long time I'm looking for a right person or couple to have sex with. No sex at all. Is there a secret ???


0 Comments, 165 Views, 0 Votes
rm_savile_row 45 M
1  Article
the call back!   8/30/2005

I'm sure all of us guys have experienced this. How long should you leave it before calling that special someone after you get there number and after the first date. I normally give it 4 days after I have met someone as do not want to come over as over keen, yet I've been told this is too long. I normally try to go along with the flow as I have never heard of a "golden rule" however if ...


0 Comments, 150 Views, 0 Votes
blind date!   8/29/2005

i hate to date because you alway end up with some body that you do not won't to be with.even a blind date they are the you need to watch.


0 Comments, 126 Views, 4 Votes ,0.53 Score
Ontop212 31 M
3  Articles
bad boys   8/28/2005

heres for the women out there, do most women fall for bad boys?


0 Comments, 95 Views, 0 Votes
jinxinaction69 47 M
4  Articles
** Cutting Your Supply Off **   8/27/2005

Have you ever experienced meeting a good looking girl at a club, drinking and dancing with her all night, and toward the end of the night she is tired of you? <br> That is because she does not see you as a challenge. It may be because you gave her the impression that you want her, or it may be because you did not cut off your supply - or both. I would like to focus on ...


2 Comments, 165 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
rm_cpl4u631 66 C
5  Articles
What to pack!!!   8/26/2005

Ok, here it is... You, are a married couple meeting a single bi-fem or another couple with a bi-f. The meeting in the lobby bar goes GREAT and it's now time to move upstairs, butt pinching all the way. The Questions is: How many toys are you going to bring, vibrators, dildoes, strap-ons, butt plugs, blindfolds, oils, assorted clamps, etc.Yes, you DO feel like Felix The Cat, but this is ...


1 Comments, 130 Views, 0 Votes
rm_cpl4u631 66 C
5  Articles
Guy cool while the wife is off a sane sex date alone?   8/26/2005

If you find a bi-fem for your wife on AdultFriendFinder but the new one insists that only the two of them can play and you can stay home, visit the pub down the lane, or stay in the liviing room watching Star-Trek reruns, or better yet, that they:ll need 3-4 hours alone and will work out the drive-home deal whenever they finish. When you do get back as a cupple, your womam is slighyly drained and gigily ...


0 Comments, 378 Views, 0 Votes
rm_cpl4u631 66 C
5  Articles
If you want a bi-fem, should you look for a couple?   8/26/2005

If, as a M/F couple, you are looking for another bi-woman are you better off looking for couples where there is no swapping by the guys, just the girls are allowed to go wild while the men watch? Seems in 80% of the M/F couples, the woman is bi and the mostly post pix. Single bi or bi-curious gals post nopix 70% of the time. No pix, we don't waste our time. Whaddya' think? <br> ...


0 Comments, 42 Views, 0 Votes
rm_IMNUGRL 53 C
3  Articles
Chatting...   8/25/2005

A beautiful woman walks into a department store to do a little shopping.She notices a couple glancing at her.They smile and turn away.She arches her back and raises breasts just a little.She acts as if she's looking at a blouse.She looks up again to see the couple staring at her once more.The female looks very inviting-she thinks.She notices the bulge in the males jeans.She turns, a rush of ...


0 Comments, 84 Views, 0 Votes
Blind Date   8/17/2005

This is a question mostly for married couples.How many of you were first introduced by a friend who set you up as a blind date?I was to my wife before she passed away over 2&a half years ago, and in the years inbetween we dated on and off until we realized we were meant for each other.


0 Comments, 72 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
sixpackboytoy 43 M
3  Articles
boytoy   8/16/2005

so alot of woman say they want a boy toy but do they i mean i am definetly willing to have discreet no strings relations but women just seem as if its a good fantasy but a lousy reality


0 Comments, 71 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
FreeBird200544 54 M
1  Article
Any tips on re entering the dating ring   8/15/2005

After 9 years togeather 6 of em married my wife & I split for good. I'm damn near 35 & well to be honest folks I have no God Damn clue about where to go to pick up women, how to approach em, etc. Any real help is appreciated. I know this questions asked thousands of times but hey current info is allways the best.


0 Comments, 193 Views, 0 Votes
charger8111 43 M
1  Article
How to date a girl   8/15/2005

be soft, kind and gentleman-like. ask her if she may give you her number and you can call her then. bring a little gift at first date and do not stare at her all the time


0 Comments, 289 Views, 3 Votes ,0.98 Score
cbj9fan_at_yhoo 56 M
2  Articles
Friends only or friends with benefits?   8/13/2005

When you meet someone you are attracted to and you hit it off & thi person has the chance to be a great friend, are you thinking friends only, or friends with benefits? Depending on which one you choose, do you lose out on the other? Please tell me what you think on this topic.


0 Comments, 193 Views, 0 Votes
justme121578 45 M
4  Articles
What is a good way to berak the ice when talking to ladies?   8/11/2005

I always have a bit of trouble initiating conversation with women when I go out to the bars. What is a good way to approach women?


2 Comments, 309 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
herc120368 55 M
9  Articles
Communication   8/9/2005

When dating someone, always keep the lines of communication open. It is not only important to express yourself, but you have to listen to your partner. Not just hear what they are saying, but really listen to what is said and what is not said. <br> Good communication requires honesty, trust and openness. You have to be honest with your partner. Give her or him the option to ...


0 Comments, 209 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
rm_breen303 38 M
1  Article
hardness   8/9/2005

is it jus me or is it really really hard to meet someone on this site if your not payin.esspecially people in the south wales area, any one from said area plz contact me.im lonely.


1 Comments, 195 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
rm_gmik1973 53 M
3  Articles
WHY IS IT SO HARD TO FIND A REAL GOOD DATE   8/9/2005

IS IT JUST ME OR HAS THE WORLD GONE STUPID. WHERE ARE ALL THE GOOD LADYS. IM SICK AND TIERD OF GOING THE HARD YARDS BY MEETING, PAYING FOR THE MEETING, AND THEN WHEN THEY SAY TO RING THEM AT A LATER DATE. THEY ACCUSE YOU OF STALKING. WHAT THE ? I RECENTLY WENT OUT ON A BLIND DATE. WE MET IN A PUBLIC VENUE. WHICH I HAVE NO PROBLEMS WHIT. WE HAD DINNER AND HIT IT OFF. WE KISSED AND SAID ...


0 Comments, 133 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
herc120368 55 M
9  Articles
Being Honest, the TRUTH should never hurt.   8/8/2005

No one likes to be lied to. Let's face, it hurts and it sucks. Most people say tell them the truth, but some can't handle that and it also hurts. But in any relationship, friends, dating, couple, marriage, sex, the truth should never hurt. <br> Communication is the key. Be honest, why waste your time thinking of a plausible lie, you have to remember it and then try to add on ...


0 Comments, 41 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
What's with the ex's!   8/8/2005

I know that you're comfortable with each other and your bodies and that you've shared alot together. You did, however break up for a reason and that won't change by having sex again. The last 3 relationships I've had with women have ended with them jumping back in the sack with their ex's. Each time for a one or two night stand and it was over again. What drives us to get back with our ...


0 Comments, 71 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
A little off the top, please.   8/5/2005

I remember this one brief encounter I had just before I got out of the service. I was stationed on the west coast, and had less than a year to go. I didnt think I wanted to start any relationships, or, even screw around for that matter because just ending a relationship, even one thats just physical is sometimes nasty business. But after I arrived at my new base I noticed this lady ...


0 Comments, 163 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
whataturnon 44 C
2  Articles
So my wife and I are now dating a 20 yr old F   7/30/2005

Like the title says, we met her on AdultFriendFinder about 2 months ago and hooked up for fun just after my wifes b-day. My wife loved it and so did I, so we stayed in touch and things have progressed to the point where my wife and I are now actively dating this woman. We are a young open minded couple, we totally trust each other, are totally open with each other, and just like seeing the other happy. ...


1 Comments, 432 Views, 14 Votes ,3.94 Score
69RwithU 59 F
1  Article
What women want   7/25/2005

What do women want? It's a question I am sure you men have asked yourselves many, many times. <br> Some of you guys may think you’ve figured us women out, others may think it's best to just keep away from the subject altogether, after all…who cares about what we want….. right? <br> WRONG!!!……Well you should care. Haven’t you ...


2 Comments, 653 Views, 16 Votes ,4.74 Score
4800direct 62 M
32  Articles
Treffen 12,13,14 August Badesee Lahde   7/23/2005

reffen 12, 13, 14 August an Badesee Lahde NRW kann mann hier sehen, badeseelahde.de <br> Ich bin den ganz wochenende da am Angeln und andrere dingen f黵 Outdoor Fun von freitag abend und sonntag bis zum mittag! <br> A rendezvous on 12, 13, 14 August at Badesee Lahde NRW you can see it here badeseelahde.de <br> sie kann zur點k schreiben, ich habe den emails ...


0 Comments, 62 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
arliss007 52 M
3  Articles
Dating women that you meet in AdultFriendFinder   7/22/2005

If you don't really like her, don't play with her just for some pussy. Not that I have but I have had what's in the sales industry known as "buyer's remorse"- meaning, I think after the fadct, I would've been alittle more discerning personality wise. <br> Word to women: be careful how you calculate a man's feelings. a. On one end you have the "smile in your face and be ...


0 Comments, 165 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
Blind date   7/22/2005

What all should a guy do on a blind date to take the lady to his bed?


1 Comments, 151 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
Forbidden Fruit   7/18/2005

I remember once when I was 26 I went out to a lounge while i was in the service frequented by older women. I had had an older woman back home starting when I was 16. She was 39 when it started and I screwed her off and on for 8 years. In the summer of 1986 when she was 43 and I was 21 my penis was constantly erect and lived in her vagina, meeting up to 4 times a week for 3 or 4 hours at a ...


0 Comments, 486 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
rm_casman1970 56 M
1  Article
Through my mind's eye.   7/17/2005

This is a "searching for sex site" period. If you are looking for a long and long term relationship than you should seek elsewhere. Sex is very important in any relationship, but I seriously doubt that you will grow old with anyone you find here. Try a site that has greater depth and breadth. <br> However, women will always be women and you have to love them for it! When women ...


0 Comments, 53 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
How To Tell If She's Faking Her Orgasms   7/15/2005

Here is my personal technique that you can use to tell if a woman's orgasm is the real deal...or a Milli Vanilli. If you want to know if a woman has faked an orgasm, lightly touch her clit immediately after her supposed climax. If she had a clitoral orgasm, her clitoris will be overly-sensitive and she’ll flinch due to the discomfort of your touch. If she doesn’t flinch, ...


1 Comments, 271 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
VanilaGarila 59 M
1  Article
When should I pop the question?   7/13/2005

If I'm dating a woman not from AdultFriendFinder, when should I ask her if she's bi or enjoys certain types of sexual activities? It would seem a waste of time to carry it on and find out later she isn't compatible with my tastes... Also, how would one approach her with these topics?


0 Comments, 80 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
rm_CUindasheets 58 M
5  Articles
How to read personal ads:   7/11/2005

40-ish.....................49 Adventurer.....Slept with all your friends Athletic.......................No tits Average looking.......Has a face like a basset hound Beautiful...........Pathological liar Emotionally Secure.......Medicated Feminist............ Ugly ball buster Free spirit...............Junkie Friendship first.........Trying to live down reputation as a slut ...


1 Comments, 160 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
midnight_lotus 41 F
8  Articles
When does cradle robbing stop and acceptable dating begin?   7/7/2005

Hey guys I have another question for you. And this one tends to be a bit touchy for some people. What is that magical age when cradle robbing stops and being acceptable for dating begins? Or is it more the difference of years? What is your opinion? Don't be shy. Reply and let me know what you think!


1 Comments, 895 Views, 10 Votes ,3.78 Score
dixiewitch2003 41 F
1  Article
younger men older women   7/7/2005

i wanted to know peoples thoughts about this. i am 30 now. and at 17 and 18 i was dating guys and girls that were 29 and 30. and as soon as i hit like 25 i started craving guys and girls that were 18 and up. i prefer and younger guy or girl than the older men and women. or the too much older than me people. as long as there legal then i want them. and i find that from 18 to like 26 or 27 ...


1 Comments, 614 Views, 6 Votes ,1.94 Score
Blazenwing 40 M
1  Article
Breaking the Ice...?   7/5/2005

Man... it's really hard to talk to women! I don't know why... it just is. I can do it all day at work (being a cashier at Walgreens sucks) and flirt with girls, women, whatever... but when it comes to a date (or more), I just can't seem to say anything. And man, I really need to get laid. LOL! Any tips? Or better, any girls near Milwaukee looking ...


4 Comments, 3950 Views, 32 Votes
27SexySensitive 51 M
5  Articles
Why me   7/3/2005

I don't get it why me .I just cant seem to hook up or meet a Woman.I'm a nice guy not so bad looking I just don't get it But some day I think i will ...


2 Comments, 180 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
goodtime1818 43 M
1  Article
What do the gals want ????   7/1/2005

They say that they want a person that will treat good. I a man that knows how to treat her great. When I am with them they have all my attion and resepct, they have the doors opened for them, sent roses from time to time. And when they are with me, they know that they are the princes.They say that they have never had anyone treat them that good. But they go back to the "bad boy". You know ...


3 Comments, 185 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
waitingonyou29 40 M
2  Articles
Friday Night   6/30/2005

Ok, so it's Friday night. What are you going to do? If your like most of America, your headed for the bar. And with every hip hop anthem played on the airwaves, this trend continues to grow at an unprecedented rate. I spent the last decade in the state of Wisconsin, and there even more so than anywhere else I could see the psychological effects of the bar scene. If your single, where do ...


1 Comments, 119 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
Love vs. Lust   6/27/2005

I was dating this girl for 2 1/2 years. Everything was great. Sex life was awesome, communcation was great and we had a lot of fun together. I was thinking marrage may be an option. We eventually broke up because of certain differences. During that relationship, experimentation came up. She enjoyed trying a lot of new things, but I had some fantasies that she had no interest in trying. How ...


3 Comments, 191 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
jinxinaction69 47 M
4  Articles
Having Female friends in social circle Helps alot :)   6/26/2005

How does that work? <br> Friend --> Sister --> Sister's Friend. <br> You met that girl you dated through people you already knew! And this is the easiest way to meet people there is, because if you're friends with people they know, you must be a cool guy, right? <br> When you go out to meet women in a bar or a ...


0 Comments, 2766 Views, 44 Votes ,4.72 Score
Do people actually meet on here?   6/22/2005

I have yet to meet my ideal person on here. I have emailed and emailed to no extent and mostly get nothing but spam in return. I think that most of these ads if not all are fake. I am just looking for an older women that wants to have a NSA relationship near San Ramon. Do women like this actually exist or am I just spitting in the wind?


2 Comments, 186 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
rm_quacknmunkiy 37 F
1  Article
really?   6/18/2005

does every date feel the same way? nervous? i have a problem!!!! i keep dating guys and dont know what to do anymore, i mean you go out with them, it might last for a little bit then you turn around and its over. well what happeneds when u want to go on to another date? should you be ready? could u be ready by that time? ro should you need more time to adjust and get over shit?


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What are most swinging couples looking for?   6/16/2005

We are new to swinging. Actually we want to try all sorts of things but that is another article. Question: What are couples looking for? We are I believe a very down to earth couple not looking to be hardcore or anything. We really want a few couples to be really good friends with benefits(single females to. How do you get 4 people to have the same interests. When I was single and ...


0 Comments, 281 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
rm_sexymachien 38 M
9  Articles
Doing things the right way   6/14/2005

I've noticed since I have been taking women out on dates that when I am a gentelmen it pays off. I take them out to dinner, or for coffee. I pay for that of course. After that we take a little walk on the beach talking and after that I take her back to her place. I use to be aggresive and would try to hook up with the chick right after dinner if I liked her. Now I'm trying to be ...


2 Comments, 160 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
rm_Irishbabe87 39 F
1  Article
Moving in Together   6/8/2005

Is it ok to move in with your boyfriend if you have only been with him for about 2 months?


1 Comments, 273 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
R1Flipper 50 M
1  Article
Personality   6/1/2005

I can't stand a Yes girl !!!! If you like me fine... don't adopt my personality... Keep your own favorite color..ect. <br> I enjoy debating variouse subjects and can respect someones opinion even though it is not my own. I don't know everything and I never will. Part of dating is learning about other lifestyles and getting to know a special persons Personality..... <br> So ...


0 Comments, 163 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
goodheart7112 51 C
2  Articles
Its hard to find anyone nowdays   5/27/2005

I feel it is hard to find anyone now days. In my expierance looking, every woman either wants someone to support her or has a great body.


0 Comments, 165 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
I'd love to meet people   5/27/2005

I'd love to meet people instead of the taking the time to set-up a meeting and it all being a no-show. I try to be upfront (I hold nothing back) and ask that if we meet it's a public place so that all can feel safe. I look at it as if you take the time to respond, you've seen the pictures, and wish to meet then at least go up to the person and say hi and have some conversation, if not ...


0 Comments, 118 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
_Cunnilinctor_ 79 M
2  Articles
Words mean different things to males and females.   5/25/2005

I find one of the weak point of online dating is that there is a lack of a common structure for self-presentation. By that I mean that the written portion of the profile always seems to elude any semblance of self-description. Moon light walks on the beach? WHO HATES MOON LIGHT WALKS ON THE BEACH? Except for LA beaches, this statement means nada. If the site required the members to ...


0 Comments, 129 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
ncsupartyguy03 42 M
4  Articles
confidence in the approach   5/22/2005

when approaching a girl at a bar i have been lacking confidence as of late. I know confidence is very important while trying to pick someone up. how do i raise my confidence without lowering my standards? any advice would be helpful.


0 Comments, 283 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
rm_your_jackpot 42 M
1  Article
i need a your help!   5/17/2005

Hi y`all .... can you explain me why some women don`t like have anal sex? thanxs


0 Comments, 118 Views, 0 Votes
gojoe88 67 M
1  Article
Monogomous for 20 years   5/2/2005

Recently my wife died of lung Cancer. I was the care giver during her sickness and now I am all alone. This loss leaves one with an empty feeling and regrets for the few bad moments. I am relieved her wishes that I find someone else when she was gone. She hoped that I could find another woman that would cause me to want to have sex as much as she did when we first met. 26 times a week. ...


2 Comments, 118 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
ineedadamnname 39 M
2  Articles
advice needed   4/27/2005

Hey. I havent been on a date in a year. Anyone have any adive on how to meet girls?


2 Comments, 252 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
kdog662 60 M
1  Article
Size Does It really Matter?   4/27/2005

I have talked with and dated enough women to get a pretty good idea about the size issue. I would say it's split 50-50. The women who said size mattered, were also asked if they did any excersises to keep things tight. 90% of these women did not do any excersises. Coincedence??? Of the women who said it's the magic in the wand, not the size of the wand, 50% of these women said they did ...


3 Comments, 339 Views, 5 Votes ,5.10 Score
online dating- why lie?   4/24/2005

i have been dating online since i was 14. mind you the selection has increased and gotten a lot better but the lies are still the same. it doesn't matter how honest and sincere i am there is always a someone who just doesn't seem to want to read the ad. and my question to you is why write in the first place if you won't take the time to digest of what i have to bring to the table? ...


1 Comments, 310 Views, 5 Votes ,5.43 Score
rm_3274dash 39 M
1  Article
Telling Them "NO"   4/23/2005

Have you ever wondered "whats the best way to say no to a person when they ask you out?" Most people just lie and make up an excuse for not going out with a person who is really just not their type. Most people don't bother telling the truth, in fact I asked 33 people what their usual response for turning down a person was. Well 27 0f them said they lied, they either said they were spoken ...


0 Comments, 75 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
Are "man made" dinners still a turn on for women?   4/13/2005

A question for the ladies.... <br> Wondering if ladies in this day and age still appreciate a fine dinner made at home, and how this rates versus going out to a restaurant for a romantic dinner. <br> I am a man who used to work in restaurants many years ago, and can put a delicious candle-lit dinner on a fancy table at home. Soft music, etc. <br> Wondering if ...


0 Comments, 126 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
rm_leth4 64 M
7  Articles
Sill talking   4/12/2005

Hello there <br> Have met this girl Well girl shes in here 40s but so am i , so same generation and intrests, wemet on this site she sent email , got talking met up found that we get no well together. We meet up for sex now and again , well where both adults and have no stings, so why not, the only problem is , she stays 20 miles away but have car so do visit as much as work ...


0 Comments, 138 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
The 3 Parts to dating   4/11/2005

There are three possible parts to a date, of which at least two must be offered: entertainment, food, and affection. It is customary to begin a series of dates with a great deal of entertainment, a moderate amount of food, and the merest suggestion of affection. As the amount of affection increases, the entertainment can be reduced proportionately. When the affection IS the entertainment, ...


0 Comments, 84 Views, 0 Votes
cal_man78 64 M
4  Articles
Feedback   4/11/2005

For those gals that can browse profiles; I would like some feedback as to how my profile is, I dont seem to get any response's, been on here for awhile now so I am interested in what maybe wrong or what I may do different, I will take any suggestion under advisement lol......


0 Comments, 57 Views, 0 Votes
asguy 41 M
9  Articles
Dating   4/8/2005

I we "use" dating before to go to bed. Every final of dating ake to the bed. It's from my practice.


0 Comments, 68 Views, 1 Votes
apples an gals   4/5/2005

like apples on trees. The best ones are at the top of the tree. Most men don't want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead, they just take the rotten apples from the ground that aren't as good, but easy....... The apples at the top think something is wrong with them, when in reality, they're amazing. They just have to wait ...


1 Comments, 143 Views, 7 Votes ,4.57 Score
Young angel for an older couple.   4/5/2005

Young angels for older couples. A few months back we found on this site a younger woman in California. After a wonderful series of exchange on the chat lines. All three sharing photos and discussing our hopes for a wonderful threesome. We set out and drove from Idaho to met her. We actually called here once before we had arrived 200 miles away and said we would call later to tell her ...


0 Comments, 310 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
FreeAgain21 63 F
8  Articles
Is it too soon to fulfill my sexual desires?   4/2/2005

I'm in the process of a divorce. Basically, my husband and I couldn't fulfill each other's sexual desires. The lack of sex between my husband and me, has left me so horny I believe my hormones are running my life now. <br> Recently, I met a very sensitive, compassionate man that loves sex as much as I do. He enjoys the same sexual needs/wants/desires as me, and I am so turned on ...


3 Comments, 350 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
MisterNineIncher 42 M
1  Article
We all want what we can't have.   4/1/2005

Ever notice that the people we find ourselves most attracted to are un-attainable... Either bound by marriage, or death perhaps. In the same light, when we are single, we find it very hard to find the right person... Yet when we think we've found "that right person" we have an unimaginable number of people beginning to show interest in us... It boggles the mind, the human psyche.


1 Comments, 79 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
What Is Dating   3/28/2005

Dating is very serious althoug we take it lightly. We must remember its like a car we must make sure that it is the right car before we buy it and it must be driven to its full power


1 Comments, 41 Views, 3 Votes ,0.98 Score
shyfunpa 51 M
2  Articles
How different are we   3/23/2005

I always wonder how different are men and women. At the same time we are so similar as well. We need a companion and we keep looking for certain things. <br> Are we really different or are we alike??


1 Comments, 80 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Where do I draw the line??   3/10/2005

There been guys that want me to go all the way with them the first night meeting. I been recently talking to a guy that says he wants to go at it right away when we first meet!! I been telling myself to wait till I know the guys in person. But then if I go along with it I'll feel easy. I don't know how to feel with alot of pressure from todays society. Am I wrong to feel this way?


4 Comments, 650 Views, 16 Votes ,3.13 Score
cal_man78 64 M
4  Articles
How does one get back into the dating scene   3/6/2005

After being in a 19 year marriage, which ended in divorce. I am finding it hard to be able to get back into the dating scene, one problem that exists is finances, which is the norm after a divorce. But are there actually any gals who likes to go dutch?? I mean it is the 21st century and all and normally I am old fashioned but lol....I am anxious lol...(sounds of desperation to some) but ...


0 Comments, 59 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
BoyToyParty 62 F
1  Article
Stood Up!   3/5/2005

I date alot, this is always a risk. But I got stood up this last week and it pissed me off royally. I normally have a good attitude re: dating but this time it made me want to quit internet dating for awhile. <br> We'd chatted by phone and email, seemed to be getting long great. He wanted to know what to bring (wine, beer, etc) and suggested he cook dinner for me. Well ...


4 Comments, 405 Views, 12 Votes ,3.51 Score
I'am Amazed   3/2/2005

I haven't been on this site for a very long time, but I have been doing a lot of browsing of women from all over the world. From America to Zimbabwe the women are beautiful.But there was one thing I noticed that came up on a lot of the profiles.That there are a lot of bi-sexual or bi-courious women out there. Don't get me wrong, to each(his or her)own.This have been going on long ...


0 Comments, 132 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
Which One Is It??   2/27/2005

Why do people describe themselves as being "openminded" and "nonjudgemental"..... and then turn around and have an "X" in the box on their profile by race and age? Help me understand this people.


1 Comments, 75 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
Does a Level Playing Field Exist?   2/22/2005

This is the first time I've written an article & I'm comeplled b/c I've read some interesting ones. Forgive my naivete but here it goes... <br> It seems every social venue, be it a party, bar, on-line dating, etc., the ratio of male-to-female is skewed. For example, I've sampled three on-line dating sites & the M:F ratios have ranged from 20:1 to 3:1. AdultFriendFinder has the best ratio ...


0 Comments, 101 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
Dating in a small town   2/22/2005

I am afriad to meet people in my own town. Because everyone knows everyone. And people are just so judgemental. I just want to know. Does anyone else have this fear?


2 Comments, 410 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
rm_HornDogE247 41 M
1  Article
Help me please   2/15/2005

Another article noob to the soap box, please be gentle . Ok, im having the worst time getting someone to date me... im really shy but usually im the only one that tries to have conversation. I don't understand and its making me quite angry. I mean im honest, passionate, good looking, funny and yet i spent Valentines day all by myself even when i was trying to pick up this girl i was with ...


0 Comments, 106 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Young men and older women   2/8/2005

Im 18/m and I would like to try sex with an older woman. I think they have more experience and could be more fun. I want to know why is it hard to find older woman that like younger guys when it's easy to find older guys that like younger woman........we all know thats a fact


0 Comments, 134 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
strangers dating experince   2/6/2005

have you ever been in a date with some one you dont ever seen? <br> I belive no body do that . because at least we had befor dating one massege or phone call , man kind creation in orignal is sceared from every ting , the fiar is decreased by how much knowlege we have about things we face in our life. that role is aplicable about dating also . nobody can have a date with ...


0 Comments, 138 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
Joelusty 54 M
3  Articles
Tantric Massage   2/1/2005

Some of you members here know me from “Hidden Mansion” as the Tantric masseur. Many men were in aw as they were watching their ladies melt and explode to shivering orgasms on my massage table. So I decided to write this article to everyone out there who wants to know Tantric massage in detail. As a contribution to “Couples 2 couples” and Steve & Dana, here are my ...


10 Comments, 7485 Views, 130 Votes ,8.57 Score
eyes   1/28/2005

alyaws look in a girls eyes and pay attension to what she says


0 Comments, 124 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
I need some help.   1/24/2005

I've been on this website for quite a while, and have been having quite a bit of problems trying to find girls my age. No offence, I'm not against men who are gay, but I have recieved many, many invitations from men around 40 who want me for a day, and I'm not interested. I'm pure straight, just looking for other ladies. I even have explicitly spoken this in my profile, but seem to believe ...


1 Comments, 143 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
Helstrom 60 M
1  Article
Why are women preoccupied with Mr. tall?   1/19/2005

I know the old fairy tales enforce the "tall dark stranger" and "Tall handsome prince charming" ideals on women from an early age, but what women seem to forget is that shorter men have just as much to offer. <br> In fact shorter men feel they have to prove there worth, which is to any woman's benefit! <br> I'm 5'5"..... okay 5'4.5" and being that height actually ...


2 Comments, 160 Views, 0 Votes
Told You That B#t%h Is Crazy!!!!   1/13/2005

It's always the beautiful ONES Well.. I would have hope that one of my friends would have given me a warning or something. It's going on week FIVE and I still can't get her to go away. The 1st time I saw her was at this but that I had just started going to. She was yelling at some guy that made her mad. Makin a scene at that. Red flag, or at least it should have been. This was about two ...


0 Comments, 146 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
coffee_T_or_me 42 M
4  Articles
lucky with chat   1/8/2005

Hi. I would like to share my new experience with the readers. Afew days back I went for browsing in an internet café and opened the yahoo messenger. Somebody had left their msgr without closing. I was about to close and go on to my site but a message popped up. The id was a girls name and it said meet me at a certain coffee shop at 6pm on that day. And it completed the message with lots of ...


0 Comments, 204 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
My Best Friend Part 2   1/8/2005

Well, Thanks for the advice all, <br> Here is the follow up with me and Tammy. We have decided to go away for a week out of state and really sit down and look at things in a different perspective and figure it all out. We are still best friends more close than ever. We have decided to have and lesbian open relationship. I felt this is the way she could determine if she really is ...


1 Comments, 282 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
mumbai    1/6/2005

mumbai had its own charm when I was to visit the city but slowly I began to feel lonely & suddenly everything seemed to turn dull & boring my company put me up in a plush 5 star hotel in south mumbai in the colaba area & one day after the housekeeping people had left I found a visiting card with just an E-mail mentioned on it it was mypkhan at yahoo.com and after finding it I just posted a ...


0 Comments, 238 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
jbiglord 35 M
3  Articles
what do the lonely do for new years   12/30/2004

This time of the year is a real pain in the ass. as some of you know, new years eve in particular is like the biggest party day of the year. I'd like to know if anyone had a suggestion as to what a lonely young man could do on this day.


0 Comments, 69 Views, 0 Votes
Chat rooms or ? What is the alternative?   12/19/2004

Where do you meet people the most? Chat rooms etc or out in public? Most chat rooms are over crowded with men and men pretending to be women. But it is easier for a shy person to start a conversation online than in person. Would like to hear some other opinions.


0 Comments, 86 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
My best friend.   12/19/2004

My best friend: Lets just call her Tammy. Well, Tammy and I do every thing together. We have considered our self soul sisters. Who were bought in this world to be each others balance. We compliment each other very well. Tammy is straight and I am lesbian. After a weekend eve of our usual sitting at home watching movies and drinking a couple of drinks Tammy goes in the bath room and jumps in ...


1 Comments, 299 Views, 7 Votes ,2.02 Score
joleme05 43 M
1  Article
Ladies, can big men be attractive too?   12/19/2004

It's a simple question that I think doesn't have a simple answer. I think some people can just say, fat is ugly, and that's that, but I do know some people have different tastes. Also, a persons confidence level is part of it. So, just for some feedback from the ladies, "Do you think big men can be attractive as well?"


1 Comments, 135 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
That first time (help from the ladies)   12/18/2004

When you finally meet someone on this site, and want get them to take the next step, how do you get them to respond favouriable. I have got plenty of network memebers, now but can't get someone to take the next step. I have tried being aggressive being nice, letting them take the next step, and nothing. Ladies ideas to help me would be appreciated


0 Comments, 114 Views, 0 Votes
rm_SCUBA602 51 M
5  Articles
Anyone live giving/receiveing oral better than intercourse?   12/14/2004

I've found that I like eating pussy and getting a blowjob more than actual intercourse, and I'm wondering if anyone else has the same tastes? Ever figure out why? I haven't as of yet.. I do like fucking, don't get me wrong, but if I were to choose, oral would be my choice...


1 Comments, 112 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score
40+   12/12/2004

In reply Vivianne unbuttoned her pink shirt and took of her glasses, unpinning her hair. Her young student watched with his cute mouth hanging open. Of all the things, this was something he hadn't even considered. His classmates often called her a prude, she never touched the sexually explicit topics in their class. Little did they know that it was because they excited Vivianne so much that ...


0 Comments, 224 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
Who's More Likely To Initiate Contact?   12/6/2004

This question is for the men and women. Is it true that men are more inclined to initiate contacting a woman first, or have some experienced this to be the other way around here on AdultFriendFinder??


1 Comments, 97 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
rm_PapaLegba666 56 M
14  Articles
Question: When dating again, what's a good 1st date?   12/5/2004

I was living with the same woman for 15 years and of those, we were married 7. We recently divorced, and it begged the question: After having been out of the dating scene for that long, what would be an ideal place for that 1st date? NO doubt, my social skills are rusty and I'd like to make a decent impression. So ladies, any ideas? <br> <br> <br> ...


0 Comments, 119 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
one4sex692 75 M
3  Articles
Am I really that naive?   12/4/2004

Am I reading things right? I have viewed many, many profiles here in which woman state they are looking for "Generous Men" only. The subject of generosity seems to appear frequently. There are also a few which state they want to be taken care of for which a man will receive great rewards. <br> Am I wrong or are these women trying to say no pay, no lay? <br> If I wanted ...


1 Comments, 183 Views, 4 Votes ,5.57 Score
Rules for Meeting/Dating Online   12/4/2004

From meeting people this way, I have gotten to undersand a few things. While they are common scense to most, you would be surprized.... and I thought I would share them with you, as follows: <br> <br> 1. Not everyone will be attracted to everyone else... learn to take rejection and to give it without being rude. <br> <br> 2. There is always someone ...


3 Comments, 259 Views, 25 Votes ,6.34 Score
How do you get that first date.   12/1/2004

How do you get that first date, Ladies lets hear from you and see what you have to say, any ideas on how to get a woman to a least go for that first date.


1 Comments, 212 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
jbiglord 35 M
3  Articles
Am I a fool for trying?   11/23/2004

Well let me say that this will be my omage to Ushers song, " confessions". Let me confess a few things to the world, then let me ask a question. Im a 23 yrold male, quickly approaching 24 who has only been on two dates in his entire life. I've only kissed three women. Yet i've had sex with 11 women over the course of my life. Three of which took place in one night. With all of this ...


2 Comments, 24 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
craftsman1979 47 M
5  Articles
one night stands   11/23/2004

why are most women againt the idea???it baffles me!!!


4 Comments, 77 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
rm_Poetrybf 38 F
4  Articles
Fools Rush In   11/9/2004

I don’t really know how to start this. I’m a fat girl, and when I say fat, I mean FAT… like grab your torches and pitchforks; you should lock me up in a dungeon somewhere. But that’s not the point. I’m pretty young, just recently turned 22, but up until very recently I was a virgin. In fact I was convinced that I’d die a virgin. That any maladies I ...


2 Comments, 141 Views, 4 Votes ,5.57 Score
dating is lost idea now   11/1/2004

people just dont date anymore and get to know each other and they just jump into something and 9 time out of ten thats why it doesnt last.


0 Comments, 11 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
EricInPa 48 M
1  Article
Where has the Romance gone?   10/29/2004

Is it just me or has there been a greater growing lack of romance in dating these days. What happened to the James Bond type of men. I for one believe chivalry is not dead, just asleep. I rarely see passion and the courting of a woman happen anymore. More and more it is becoming more clear to me that seducing a partner is a fading act of sexually foreplay. <br> Let me know ...


1 Comments, 23 Views, 9 Votes ,6.42 Score
fujhonny 39 C
1  Article
no friends   10/29/2004

do people really meet up with other ppl in this site? i have been here for less than amonth but ntohing i dunno


0 Comments, 15 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
To invite for a vacation   10/26/2004

Internet dating seems to have a bad image. Every time again I invite a woman to come to Spain and enjoy a hot (and free) vacation, the usual reply is "Yeah, right.....". Being a gold member does not seem to matter either. <br> Anyone with bright ideas (or good experience?) <br> Social.


0 Comments, 12 Views, 8 Votes ,5.56 Score
kinkydetroitcpl2 50 C
13  Articles
Should i or shouldnt i   10/24/2004

My girlfriend wants me too fuck her best friend.I think its a trick but I should do it anyways.


0 Comments, 65 Views, 6 Votes ,3.93 Score
Does this site really work for standard members??   10/21/2004

I would like to know what other user experiences when trying to meet members, and or otherwise utilize this site. Any suggestions/tips would be welcome.


0 Comments, 31 Views, 8 Votes ,5.56 Score
Re: Is she a nympho   10/12/2004

Is English your 5th language? Because you sure made it seem as such in your post. <br> If you want a succinct answer, provide a succinct question. <br> Now after you've looked up the word succinct, please provide a post in the appropriate manner.


0 Comments, 8 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
rm_AustinBC 44 M
8  Articles
Sex in the eve and sex in the morn   10/9/2004

I don't understand why ever single woman I've been with, loves sex in the morning, and I love sex at night. I think sex at night is better because everything is clean. In the morning, I don't mind, but at the same time sometimes my mind isn't on it. In the morning you are just waking up, you look like crap, and your breath stinks...what is so sexy about that?


0 Comments, 35 Views, 0 Votes
rm_coaster_cock 38 M
1  Article
i wnt to try but...   10/6/2004

hi, im a gay, i think and i wnt to try a man for some sex but do not know how to go about it. i have a few mates that i would like to see naked but noe of them will. i am asking is there a way of seeing them though they are not gay and how to ask a man for gay sex


0 Comments, 109 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
69josh 47 M
3  Articles
I want to know why women always get emotional about sex.   10/3/2004

I never get emotional about sex. exspecally if its new thing I understand if you dated someone for a long time but sex is just sex


0 Comments, 22 Views, 0 Votes
what women look for in a man   9/29/2004

What Women Are Looking For In A Men I just bought the advanced CD series & it's amazing what a difference they make over the book. Being able to listen on the way to work, whilst out doing chores, A date should simply be 'tea & stimulating conversation', which for all of the reasons you give makes perfect sense to me. But once I've done the tea & conversation with this ...


0 Comments, 13 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
snowstorm800 42 M
1  Article
How should a married man hit on a women   9/17/2004

I was just looking for both points of view, frome married men and women to singles. What is the best way to aproach a person about a discrete extamarital affair?


0 Comments, 56 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
AAF does really work   9/7/2004

Hey I would just like to say that I almost gave up in persuing a friend or lover or whatever you may being doing...But I finnaly met a sweet girl from AAF and I am also going to see her again today.. So don't give up.. One thing that you guys need to understand, Is that females get aprox. 50 to 100 e-males or request a day, so If you don't get a reply, its not always that they dont like you ...


0 Comments, 9 Views, 8 Votes ,4.64 Score
BlacknGold1 51 M
2  Articles
Why Do Women Hate Short Men?   8/30/2004

Why do women make such an issue about a man's height? Last time I checked, there was no correlation between a man's height and his virility. It really makes women look shallow and ignorant to judge a man solely on physical characteristics. It's also hypocritical. If a man judged a woman strictly on looks, he would be condemned as shallow and immature. If a woman does the same nonsense, ...


0 Comments, 11 Views, 13 Votes ,4.49 Score
Compatibility   8/19/2004

I have studied the Myers-Briggs Temperment Indicator and it seems to be fairly accurate and defining the different types of Mentality people have and which ones work to support ones weaknesses and empowers ones weaknesses. I was just wondering who on here has taken the test and what was your reslult? I am either a INTP or ENTP I can't decide when I want to be extroverted and when I want ...


0 Comments, 1 Views, 7 Votes ,4.31 Score
Differences in Dating   8/18/2004

Has anyone noticed the difference when you meet someone from this website or others like to; to meeting someone you know nothing about? <br> Is it because you've read their profile, you have an understanding of what the person is about and what they want (sexually)? <br> Compared to someone your just meeting, know nothing about, blind date. You know very little-to ...


0 Comments, 14 Views, 6 Votes ,4.79 Score
RE:first dates   8/10/2004

It's a smart move if you meet face to face while going on a 1st DATE as you never really know what kind of person your really talking to no matter how he/she talks...i knew a person that talked to a guy online & went out with him that nite.....and all he wanted was SEX....but while they was chattin online.....there was NO sex involved......yes she made it through the date without giving ...


0 Comments, 3 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
GCLane 52 M
2  Articles
Hot Import Nights Aug. 7   8/2/2004

I'm going to be showing my car at the Hot Import Nights(HIN) the 7th of Aug. in the Market Hall and I was wondering if any of you girls would like to meet(eat)me there. I'll be wearing a black T shirt with an Intercrew logo on it. P.S. I look like my profile


0 Comments, 128 Views, 7 Votes ,1.51 Score
it's really great   7/23/2004

iam a virgin and while surfing site's , i got this site , i posted my add here in this site and oohhhhhh..... really it's great site to find people who are near to in ur local , iwas virgin and met a virgin and had great fun , she is my partner knw , when ever she need's sex she call's me and when ever i need , i call her .....we are enjoying a lot , thanx to " AdultFriendFinder"


0 Comments, 19 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
trucker_63601 61 M
3  Articles
Ages vary, what is the breaking point?   7/21/2004

I have been reading about age difference in relationships. What is the break point for being thought of as a "dirty old man" or a "cradle robber" when it comes to ages of people involved? I read in a popular mens magazine that with age you should take the older persons age divide it by 1/2 and then add 3 years. A person 40 should not date anyone under 23 ?!?!?! I don't agree with this and ...


0 Comments, 3 Views, 14 Votes ,5.86 Score
RE: why women don't reply   7/19/2004

I've e-mailed a ton of women on this website and got only 2 replies. If I am not wrong, you are looking for the same thing we are looking for, so why don't you women reply when we e-mail you? It's a matter of courtesy. I would you like to hear your opinions about that.


0 Comments, 111 Views, 15 Votes ,7.26 Score
Having Sex Your Girlfriend?   7/18/2004

Having Sex With Your Girlfriend Which You Just Meet Her Through Online?


0 Comments, 3 Views, 18 Votes ,5.31 Score
RE: Re: to "single parent"   7/13/2004

Just so you know, it also happens to single dads. I try to be straight up front that I am a single parent of a wonderful little man. I have, on several occcasions, mentioned this and lo and behold she all of a sudden has somewhere to be. You know, forgot sisters baby shower, left my electric blanket on, etc. Makes one want to give up on the fairer sex.


0 Comments, 9 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
rm_FullFigure1 68 F
11  Articles
Re: to "single parent"   7/9/2004

Don't pay any attention to that last jerk who responded. He compared a "dog" to a ""!! PLEASE!!!! When a guy turns and runs when he finds out that you have a , LET HIM GO! He's not the man for you. You don't want someone who turns and runs from responsibilities anyway. It will take some time to find that "right man", but until that guy shows up, don't take these other guys so ...


0 Comments, 16 Views, 11 Votes ,6.72 Score
kellygreeneyes69 50 F
1  Article
Re:20 Simple Dating Tips.   7/2/2004

Wow! Very Insightful, you understand us well. Should have that one published and easily accessable for all men to see and follow. As much as we LOVE sex, your mannorisms before and after are just as important and help decide whether or not we come back for more. Thank You for seeing us so clearly, Kelly


0 Comments, 110 Views, 10 Votes ,4.18 Score
Flying by the seat of my pants   7/1/2004

I dunno, but every date I've ever been on, there was no plan, no thought on what to do etc. I've always winged it, flew by the seat of my pants, been myself, been kind and courteous and everything always seemed to go very well, sex included. Now I'm what you call a bad boy rather than a gentleman but I have a good guy nature to the bad boy side, I don't disrespect women and maybe that's ...


0 Comments, 11 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
Monogamous sex vs. open sex?   6/29/2004

Married people like to have sex, sometimes, with others other than their spouse. If this is a site where we seek sex, then why does it bother women (or men for that matter) if the men looking at them are attached? A zipless fuck can have intimacy. And I think it can enhance the single person having sex with a married one by realizing their sexiness. What do you think?


0 Comments, 8 Views, 13 Votes ,5.83 Score
rm_sexylipps9 50 F
1  Article
Fake Bi-Woman   6/28/2004

Why is that you e-mail a woman they e-mail you back you both sound interested in one another but when it comes time to meet they: back out, stand you up or when you do meet them they look nothing like the picture they sent you? I don't understand if you are not interested then don't reply or atleast be real and stop playing with people's emotions. I need a real woman not a fake one!!!


0 Comments, 25 Views, 9 Votes ,4.92 Score
Re: Why do men stop talking to you when you have a    6/27/2004

Wait a minute, you saw this guy for three weeks and didn't tell him you had a ? Surely this is information you should have offered up earlier. <br> Allow me to be blunt: most men are scared of single moms. Single moms are unpredictable in their actions and especially in their motives. I'm sure you're thinking that you're not, but we don't like to take that chance. Single ...


0 Comments, 7 Views, 8 Votes ,4.41 Score
tell me what you think..   6/27/2004

what is dateing can you be in love with someone and just date them..and when you are with someone who lives far away can you love him and be in a commited relationship with him or would it be better just to date him??????


0 Comments, 6 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
Re: Women who don't follow through   6/27/2004

You must be aware that there a large number of fakes and weirdos on the internet. A vigilant woman will remember this when going to meet for the first time. Perhaps the women you've tried to meet have been through this before or have been warned sternly about meeting "strangers" from the internet. If you're smart, you won't be pushy about it; you'll be patient. <br> Oh, and ...


0 Comments, 6 Views, 4 Votes ,5.57 Score
what do you think   6/24/2004

i live in cali and my boyfreind in new mexico do you think its ok that he plays online with other girls even though we are in a attached relationship???????


0 Comments, 20 Views, 8 Votes ,3.48 Score
rm_jono1957 61 M
1  Article
older man looking for older women   6/18/2004

Hello all you older women this is maybe strange to a lot of people my age 46 you would think nice young women but not for me I enjoy older women they are good company and definitely less problems and they really apprieciate someone who genually cares so I, m trying to link up with people now so I may be able to meet them when I travel home in August .


0 Comments, 92 Views, 9 Votes ,5.35 Score
it's not true to play with our feeling   6/12/2004

here in this site some guy's and with girl's id , they are calling us to some places and making fun of us , it's not true , for pleasure we are meeting , if it really required we can have sex with callgirl's , but they don't give wat we want that's why i want to meet a girl or lady who is olso intrested in sex , please be ware of that , with out taking on phone don't move further step


0 Comments, 9 Views, 17 Votes ,4.40 Score
WellBuiltGuy75 49 M
0  Articles
Inheriting her ex's stupidity.   6/11/2004

I am writing this article in the hopes that it might illuminate a 'problem' I have encountered in the very beginning of dating relationships: The problems that past boyfriends/husbands heaped upon these poor women are being used against me. Let me illustrate with two fine examples. <br> I was set up with a woman for a first date. It was not a 'blind' date in the strictest sense ...


3 Comments, 29 Views, 17 Votes ,6.66 Score
chrisomaha 46 M
11  Articles
what's up with girls not responding   6/10/2004

I have been a member for three years. I have had only two responses in this time. What's up with girls not responding?


0 Comments, 17 Views, 18 Votes ,5.17 Score
texastornado75 41 M
0  Articles
Re: Death of Chivalry   6/8/2004

First off, let me start that I hate it when people associate the actions of a few with an entire group. I absolutely despise being grouped as "a young stupid who has no respect for anyone" by society's standards just because I fall into an age bracket. Not all of us college age guys are @$$holes. Those that are simply ruin it for the rest of us. Just like in any other group, the ...


0 Comments, 9 Views, 10 Votes ,6.57 Score
When Guys date a girl,does he already plan for SEX??   6/7/2004

or is it still pure love, but most people think of sex and plan to get it done with the gal asap.. Right?


0 Comments, 4 Views, 13 Votes ,4.65 Score
where to meet people   6/6/2004

For chicks: <br> The driving range: Spend the afternoon in the sun with a bucket of balls. These places are always overpopulated with men, and they go gaga over women who can swing a crooked stick. <br> Outdoor food and music festivals: Any event where there's a band and vendors selling those gigantic Fred Flintstone turkey legs (or some other meat-on-a-stick) is a ...


0 Comments, 89 Views, 39 Votes ,6.33 Score
why lie   6/2/2004

married men if u are married why lie i think it is best to be honest ya know let the women decide if she is willing to go there dont lead her on and then spring it on the women that is just selfish and ugly ya know to grt someone hooked and neglect to tell them you r married is strictly looking out for what u want with no regard for the next person stop it


0 Comments, 22 Views, 10 Votes ,6.17 Score
sexinscc 38 M
1  Article
making the first step   6/2/2004

I've been dating a girl for several weeks now. She claims to be "old fashioned, " and actually refuses to call me (what a shame! and we only date when I initiate the contact. <br> Anyways, I'm enjoying my time with her and I think she is too. What's the best way to act on this without killing any potential friendship we might have built up?


0 Comments, 4 Views, 12 Votes ,5.80 Score
Re: Generous   5/31/2004

When a woman wants a generous man, it is code for, "I'm an and require money to have sex with you."


0 Comments, 6 Views, 4 Votes ,5.19 Score
Shapely423542 60 F
10  Articles
Motivation/Pictures/Relationships   4/30/2004

Just curious if most men here are really seeking just plain down and dirty sex. Are you even remotely motivated by what a woman says in her profile? Are you turned off if she says she is looking for a relationship? What if by that she just means.....just a friend to hang with type relationship? Sometimes sex, sometimes not.


0 Comments, 35 Views, 8 Votes ,4.87 Score
Re: Ladies want to meet...   4/28/2004

Meeting someone can either be good or bad. The first thing you need to do is find a neutral place to meet. If the person in question ends up being a crazy, you really don't want them to stalk you at your regular restaurant, coffee shop, or bar. Coffee is generally a good place to meet first. It gives both of you a chance to talk, watch one another's movements, et cetera. If that goes ...


0 Comments, 5 Views, 14 Votes ,6.98 Score
jumpin_lava 43 M
3  Articles
how long could be the first date?   4/25/2004

should the first date for the coffee is around 15 min (excellent) or 30 min(good)?


0 Comments, 8 Views, 4 Votes ,5.57 Score
RE: I just want to get laid   4/23/2004

If you just want to get laid then try looking at profiles that say "sex only" or "no commitment", but expect it to take time. <br> If you want to get laid right now, you better check out the section of your local newspaper, or a shady street corner.


0 Comments, 3 Views, 11 Votes ,6.16 Score
rm_playfulcat4 47 F
1  Article
Can someone who has a STD still date?   4/23/2004

Q: Can someone who has a STD still date? (Not AIDS/HIV) I am talking about STD's like Genital Herpies and ones like it. I am just looking for Adults Opinions on this it's for a study in my class. Please be Open minded about this if you reply. Thank you


0 Comments, 34 Views, 7 Votes ,5.08 Score
pocky_bi_bytch 51 F
1  Article
Re: the cock shot or smiley face ?   4/19/2004

I, myself, prefer a person's main photo to be one of their face( i.e. clothed) If a guy wants to put a pic of his cock I think it is better placed on either of the other photos 2-5. That is my opinion.


0 Comments, 3 Views, 26 Votes ,7.66 Score
ty_cho2002 41 M
1  Article
How many internet hookers are there.   4/13/2004

Im totaly serious with this online hookers. There completely pissing me off with "oh im sorry it took a bit but please goto deprivewomen.com. I just ask Why and because i am wasting my time sending emails to these people that have regular photos. im not talking about those super hot girls with perfect pictures im talking about those pictures that actually look like real people. WEll whatver ...


0 Comments, 8 Views, 20 Votes ,6.83 Score
jumpin_lava 43 M
3  Articles
one liner, how do you date with them?   4/10/2004

there was this girl, who on the first date would answer in multiple choice style. she would either say 'yes', 'no' or 'i like anything'. eg: me:what movies do you like she: i like all moview. me:what games do you play, she: i can play pretty much everything. me:what places do you like to go out for, she: i am open for everything. me: what music do you like ? she: i am open to any type of ...


0 Comments, 1 Views, 12 Votes ,2.45 Score
jumpin_lava 43 M
3  Articles
what is the best dress of the first date   4/10/2004

this is a very complex question for me. from the past experiences it has always been bit formal side which was succesful. but most of my friends have a opinion that casual with jeans, t-shirt, coat/jacket, snikers. what do you think is the correct one? formal( excellent ) casual ( very good) does not matter ( good )


0 Comments, 4 Views, 14 Votes ,4.74 Score
kinky_bi_chic 42 F
3  Articles
Re: Need Help   4/5/2004

Maybe you should divorce your wife. That might make your girlfriend happy. My soon to be ex husband left me for his girlfriend while I was pregnant and, even though I love him dearly I just want it to be over and him to leave me alone because I can't handle the pain. Well good luck with everything.


0 Comments, 172 Views, 10 Votes ,5.38 Score
rm_fuckable01 50 M
1  Article
Need help   4/3/2004

Well where do I start? Lets see I am dating this one girl for over4 months now and we have been living together. the problem is that she want to be with other ppl. Well guys that is. I guess that I cant complain to much since I am still married but I am not living with her. Well my gf has already cheated on me once and I never have. I really want to be with her but at times I dont. At one ...


0 Comments, 7 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
rm_KonaCoz 34 M
2  Articles
Men See Hot Woman!   3/31/2004

It's just an unfortunate fact, that probably holds true for many woman too (on the opposite side of looking at this issue) - is that new experiences are needed to keep the big guy going hard. Why do you think we look at the hot ones walking by all the time? A raise from a pretty girl walking by can actually help a relationship - after all when he get's home with you after getting raises all ...


0 Comments, 7 Views, 8 Votes ,4.17 Score
rm_KonaCoz 34 M
2  Articles
Ok to date young!   3/31/2004

I notice this trend is very much in full swing! I see younger woman dating older guys, and younger guys dating older woman. But is it really dating, or is it just a temporary sexual relationship? I believe it's ok to date someone much younger than you, but beware that the maturity level is going to be different so don't get too attached or be too surprised if that younger someone runs away ...


0 Comments, 4 Views, 6 Votes ,5.07 Score
I would choose a nice guy any day.   3/30/2004

This idea that " nice guys come in last " is something I don't understand. I would take a " nice guy " any day. Who says that they can't be great lovers. Women that look for " bad boys " get what they deserve and men that search " bad girls " get likewise. They both end up crying the blues. Loose women and promiscuous men end up alone. They deserve what they seek. I married one of the ...


0 Comments, 13 Views, 7 Votes ,5.59 Score
sultrymistress 63 F
3  Articles
Re: Black Woman   3/29/2004

Golfer317 I'm a black woman and all of my experiences on this site have been with white men. Most of the gentlemen that I have dated we still remain good friends if you know what I mean So the answer to your question is I'm sure that their are lots of black women on this site that has dated or dating white men. Color is just color when are people going to realize it's only skin ...


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How old or young will you date?   3/28/2004

As a man of 40+, I find myself still very attracted to younger women. Not just for the obvious male fantasy, but a lot cuz my friends are already at least 10 to 15 yrs younger than me. Not that I would at all mind of woman closer to my age. But the ones that I do meet, are just so settled, ..ahhh! Still have to much life in these bones to totally settle down. So what's basically acceptable ...


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rm_tagmein 56 M
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Do women these days crave anal?   3/28/2004

As a true lover of anal pleasures, I still find it hard to find women who like/love anal sex. Do they just don't want to admit they like this particular act or is the general idea still taboo!


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